The Gardener: A Custom Relationship Tool

Built-In Dating Coach Offers Tips and Research-Based Reflections

The Gardener is your built-in dating coach, designed to guide you through the ups and downs of modern dating. More than a pattern-checker, The Gardener helps you date mindfully, build stronger connections, and debrief after challenging conversations. Along with daily reflections, tips, and research-based questionnaires, The Gardener helps you understand your relational style and what you are looking for — turning the dating process into a meaningful journey of growth and discovery.

Mindful Messaging Protects Your Dating Experience and Safety

 Mindful Messaging helps protect your dating experience. If a message contains explicit, abusive, or threatening language, the system intervenes. It blurs harmful messages for the recipient and prompts the sender to pause before sending. You decide whether to block, delete, or continue. It is a safeguard that ensures conversations on Harvest stay rooted in respect, kindness, and authentic connection.

AI Matching Based on Values and Strengths

 AI Match clarifies what matters most to you in dating. Through a series of simple, research-based questions, it identifies your top relational strengths and the values you seek in a partner. These qualities appear on your profile, helping you and your matches see what truly counts beyond first impressions. The system also highlights potential matches whose values align with yours, so you can turn chemistry into lasting connections.