🌱HARVEST FAQ:
Because Intentional Daters Deserve Straight Answers

💘 What is HARVEST?

HARVEST is a dating app built for emotionally intelligent connections.
It’s more than swipe-and-ghost. It’s a space where emotional maturity is the norm—not the exception. You’ll find real people looking for intentional connection, with built-in tools to help you show up clearly, set boundaries, and grow.

 

🤖 Is this just an AI app? Will I be dating robots?

Not at all. HARVEST is a dating app—for real people.
The AI tools are there to support your dating experience, not replace it. You still match, message, and connect with actual humans. HARVEST’s AI features are optional support systems that help you practice skills, reflect on conversations, and avoid falling into the same old patterns.

 

🌳 What makes HARVEST different from other dating apps?
 

• We screen for red flags, not just right swipes.
   

• We offer bite-sized lessons for relational growth.
   

• We center emotional intelligence from the first message.
   

• And we believe dating should leave you better than it found you.
   

• We provide The Gardener — an on-demand AI reflection tool to help you process conversations, name feelings, and navigate dating dynamics with clarity.
   

• We offer AI Match™ — a simulation space where you can rehearse emotionally intelligent conversations with different partner archetypes and tones.
   

 

🚩 What kind of red flags does HARVEST detect?

HARVEST’s built-in Red Flag Detection scans chats and profiles for harmful communication patterns like:

• Gaslighting
   

• Coercion
   

• Passive-aggression
   

• Love bombing
   

• Blame shifting                                                                                                                           When they show up, HARVEST gently redirects the user to a Growth Opportunity—a research-backed lesson designed to encourage self-awareness and change.

 

💬 What is AI Match™?

AI Match™ is your emotional rehearsal space.
It’s a simulation tool powered by GPT-4 Turbo, where you can practice difficult dating scenarios before you go live. Choose your partner’s tone, try out responses, and grow your confidence in emotionally intelligent conversations.
 

🌱 Who is The Gardener?

The Gardener is your private, AI-based conversation guide.
Feeling unsure about a message? Wondering if a comment crossed a line? Ask The Gardener for grounded, emotionally intelligent feedback—without judgment. It’s like having a wise friend who never ghosts you.

 

🧑‍🤝‍🧑 Who is HARVEST for?

HARVEST is for people who are:

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• Ready for emotionally mature relationships
   

• Tired of dating dynamics that leave them drained
   

• Willing to grow and reflect as they date
  It’s inclusive of all genders, orientations, and relationship styles—as long as you show up with care.
   

 

🔒 Is my data safe?

Yes. HARVEST uses metadata-only logging for AI tools—meaning we track patterns, not your private messages. Your conversations remain private. You control when and how you use the AI tools.

 

📅 When does HARVEST launch?

HARVEST will be available Fall 2025.
We’re currently welcoming early users to join the waitlist and help shape a more mindful dating future.

 

📩 How do I join the waitlist?

Easy! Just head to www.dateharvest.com and click “Join the Waitlist.” You’ll be first in line for launch, updates, and early access perks.